Game Of The Day

Goal Striving Paradox

2011-10-27T15:52:00.001-07:00

What an interesting Paradox goal setting can create.

Sort of like in golf where you could have a goal of not hitting your ball in the water. Or your goal could be landing your ball squarely in the middle of the fairway with a great position. Which goal is more inspiring? What are the likely outcomes of each goal?

Think about it.

Friday Ignite 2 – Goal Striving Paradox

via Success Coach - Business Coach - Life Success by Justin Popovic on 10/14/11

How many times have you set a goal and failed to reach it?

Personally, I have lost count.

Sometimes it was because my goals were too aggressive. Other times I lost interest in the goal. And then another portion of the time, I was pretty much sabotaging my achievement of the goal.

The following video explains why.

Please leave me your comments and let me know what you think

There are only two options regarding commitment

2011-03-28T04:21:00.001-07:00

There are only two options regarding commitment;

you're either in or you're out.

There's no such thing as life in-between.

Pat Riley

It's Find The Spark Monday

2011-02-21T04:15:00.001-08:00

At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person.  Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.

~Albert Schwietzer

Reading this quote makes me think of an Anthony Robbins book titled "Awaken The Giant Within". That giant is in there, in each and every one of us. We mostly think about how to awaken our own giant, but what if the secret was to awaken this in others? What if that were the key to our own aliveness?

Why not add this to your to do list today? Check yourself to see if you are providing a spark for others or are you being candle snuffer. Take time, be present to the people you encounter today, contribute to them.

Not sure how? Try this - sincerely ask them about themselves and the things that they find important. Then just listen. At the end of the day take stock of the impact you've had and see what has happened to your own giant. Rinse and Repeat!!

Have a great day.

What are you thinking? Thursday

2011-01-27T04:08:00.001-08:00

Once your thoughts reflect what you genuinely want to be, the appropriate emotions and the consequent behavior will flow automatically. Believe it and you will see it.

~Wayne Dyer

Reminds me of James Allen's 1903 book, As a Man Thinketh. Allen's book is credited by many as being the foundation for much of today's personal development thinking and work.

I've heard it said that you "are what you eat" Should it be YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK! --

For a free eBook of James Allens classic: http://www.AsAManThinketh.net

Reach out to me if you'd like an audio version of his book.

Appreciate your thoughts - I invite you to comment on my blog or my Facebook Fan Page..
Steve

Is that a FACT? Wednesday

2011-01-26T03:53:00.001-08:00

For me this is so on mark today:

Within you right now is the power to do things you never dreamed possible. This power becomes available to you just as soon as you can change your beliefs.

~Maxwell Maltz

When the Wright Brothers set out to build a flying contraption, many respected people thought the idea foolish. Everybody knew that a machine heavier than air could not fly. When Marconi tried to transmit a radio signal across the Atlantic, the experts ridiculed the idea of sending radio waves around the curved surface of the earth. When Galileo proposed that the earth rotated around the sun, and not vice versa, he was shamefully disbelieved. Yet each of these people changed the world by overcoming traditional thinking, and found ways to prove possible what was once thought not.

Neither the Wright Brothers, nor Marconi, nor Galileo, accepted the world for what it seemed; they strove to see past the illusion of the obvious.

Before it was discovered that the earth was round, it was considered fact that the world was indeed flat. This instance alone, exemplifies that what we consider a truism today could be categorically disproved tomorrow.

Could this be true for you? Something you consider fact might not be a fact at all.

It is so amazing that we can't always see our own beliefs, the ones holding us back; limiting us. Things we chose to believe long ago, the rules WE made up that put limits on our lives. The rules that keep us from our potential, the constraints that keep us playing smaller in life than we really are. The ones it seems we keep bumping into.

Where are you feeling held back? What limits you are imposing on yourself? There isn't anything wrong with this, there is nothing wrong with you! We are all like this. Keep in mind I'm not saying that you must keep your limits - you just may need some help is seeing them and getting past them.

Some other day we'll talk about the box we live inside of.

Appreciate your thoughts - I invite you to comment on my blog or my Facebook Fan Page..

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It's Your Game... What's Your Game Plan?

2011-01-24T04:13:00.001-08:00

Adversity is another way to measure the greatness of individuals. I never had a crisis that didn't make me stronger.

~Lou Holtz

I put together a little blog post this morning looking at the habits in our lives. Are habits our default game plans?

Personal Development and You

Have a great day

Steve

Visit My Fan Page - Just search for It's Your Game on Facebook. Make sure to click on the LIKE button.

It's Your Game... What's Your Game Plan?

2011-01-24T04:02:00.001-08:00

Adversity is another way to measure the greatness of individuals. I never had a crisis that didn't make me stronger.

~Lou Holtz

I put together a little blog post this morning looking at the habits in our lives. Are habits our default game plans?

Personal Development and You

Have a great day

Steve

Visit My Fan Page - Just search for It's Your Game on Facebook. Make sure to click on the LIKE button.

It's Your Game Friday! What Matters to You?

2011-01-21T04:48:00.001-08:00

NO REGRETS

By Steve Goodier

At the 1924 Olympic Games in Paris, the sport of canoe racing was added to the list of international competitions. The favorite team in the four-man canoe race was the United States team. One member of that team was a young man by the name of Bill Havens.

As the time for the Olympics neared, it became clear that Bill's wife would give birth to their first child about the time that the U.S. team would be competing in the Paris games. In 1924 there were no jet airliners from Paris to the United States, only slow ocean going ships. And so Bill found himself in a dilemma. Should he go to Paris and risk not being at his wife's side when their baby was born? Or should he withdraw from the team and remain with his family?

Bill's wife insisted that he go to Paris. After all, competing in the Olympics was the culmination of a life long dream. But Bill felt conflicted and, after much soul searching, decided to withdraw from the competition and remain home, where he could support his wife when the child arrived. He considered being at her side his highest priority, even higher than going to Paris to fulfill his dream.

As it turned out, the United States four-man canoe team won the gold medal in Paris. And Bill's wife was late in giving birth to their child. She was so late, in fact, that Bill could have competed in the event and returned home in time to be with her when she gave birth.

People said, "What a shame." But Bill said he had no regrets. For the rest of his life, he believed he had made the better decision.

Bill Havens knew what was most important to him. Not everybody figures that out. And he acted on what he believed was best. Not everybody has the strength of character to say no to something he or she truly wants in order to say yes to something that truly matters. But for Bill, it was the only way to peace; the only way to no regrets.

There is an interesting sequel to the story of Bill Havens...

The child eventually born to Bill and his wife was a boy, whom they named Frank. Twenty-eight years later, in 1952, Bill received a cablegram from Frank. It was sent from Helsinki, Finland, where the 1952 Olympics were being held. The cablegram read: "Dad, I won. I'm bringing home the gold medal you lost while waiting for me to be born."

Frank Havens had just won the gold medal for the United States in the canoe-racing event, a medal his father had dreamed of winning but never did. Like I said, no regrets.

Thomas Kinkade eloquently said, "When we learn to say a deep, passionate yes to the things that really matter, then peace begins to settle onto our lives like golden sunlight sifting to a forest floor."

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Steve Goodier is an author and speaker. You can visit his website by going to

www.lifesupportsystem.com

Luck! ??

2011-01-20T04:09:00.001-08:00

Luck! ??

2011-01-20T03:41:00.001-08:00

Whatcha thinking Wednesday?

2011-01-19T03:38:00.001-08:00

Good Morning,

Here is a thought to ponder today.

What you thought before has led to every choice you have made, and this adds up to you at this moment. If you want to change who you are physically, mentally, and spiritually, you will have to change what you think.

~ Dr. Patrick Gentempo

Interesting to think about. How does one remove the constraints their past thinking imposes on them? There is a way. Do you have it?

Have a great day!

Hey! It's Your Game Monday....

2011-01-17T04:40:00.001-08:00

Failure is only postponed success as long as courage "coaches" ambition. The habit of persistence is the habit of victory.

~Herbert Kaufman

It's been awhile sense the last Game of the Day.... I'll apologize to those of you who looked forward to it in the morning. Today starts something new... It's Your Game. There will be many new items added into the mix, including my first online course that should be ready later this week. It will be free to start out.

Today's thought is very apropos for me. My question to you is where will you fail today? Where will you push beyond your comfort zone? Where will you look failure in the eye and persist towards your goal, towards your dream.

Have a great day...

Steve

Hey! It's Your Game Monday....

2011-01-17T04:33:00.001-08:00

Welcome to 2011 - New Years Recipe

2011-01-02T02:29:00.001-08:00

New Years Recipe

Take twelve whole months,

Clean them thoroughly of all bitterness, hate, and jealousy,

Make them just as fresh and clean as possible.

Now cut each month into twenty-eight, thirty, or

thirty-one different parts,

but don't make up the whole batch at once.

Prepare it one day at a time out of these ingredients.

Mix well into each day one part of faith,

one part of patience, one part of courage,

and one part of work.

Add to each day one part of hope,

faithfulness, generosity, and kindness.

Blend with one part prayer,

one part meditation, and one good deed.

Season the whole with a dash of good spirits,

a sprinkle of fun, a pinch of play,

and a cupful of good humor.

Pour all of this into a vessel of love.

Cook thoroughly over radiant joy,

garnish with a smile,

and serve with quietness, unselfishness,

and cheerfulness.

You're bound to have a Happy New Year.

Author Unknown

Secret Santa - Merry Christmas

2010-12-25T09:34:00.001-08:00

Merry Christmas

SECRET SANTA

The man had just filled his car with gas; he was cold, wet, and ready to head for home. He opened his car door and bent down to climb inside.

"Sir, sir."

He glanced in the direction of the frail voice to find a well-dressed, elderly lady attempting to get his attention.

He closed the car door and walked towards her. "Can I help you, ma'am?"

The older woman explained that the gas pump was not working properly, and asked if he knew what she was doing wrong.

"These are new pumps and very touchy-even for me. I've found the easiest thing to do is forget locking them while I fill; they keep shutting off for some reason."

"Oh my! I can't keep pressure on that handle until my tank is full. My hands don't have much strength in them anymore." She cast her blue eyes to the ground in frustration.

"I'd be honored to fill your tank for you!" The man's Texas accent was gentle and he gave her a little wink. "By the way, I love your British accent."

"Yes, a British accent in Texas.people always notice!" She smiled. "We just came to the States a few years ago. That's my husband in the car." She paused for a moment, "He has Alzheimer's now."

"I'm so very sorry for both of you." After a slight lull the gentleman continued. "Why don't you get back in the car while I do this; the snow is picking up and you're going to get wet."

She was a lovely woman with snowy-white hair; her attire was prim and proper as one would expect from a Brit. "I'd rather visit if you don't mind. Our son is out of town for Christmas; he's with his wife's family this year and I'm feeling a bit blue."

A knot formed in the Texan's throat and he hoped to change the subject. "Just what are the two of you doing out in this weather? I hope your drive home is a short one. You know these Texas drivers aren't the best when it comes to snow and sleet," he teased.

"We're on our way home from a Christmas party. The medical center has one each year for the Alzheimer patients. They are rather like children's parties and they have Santa visit. Oftentimes patients will have moments they recall things from their past. Some sing along to Christmas carols when they haven't carried on an actual conversation in quite a long while."

"Did anyone recognize Santa today?"

"Oh, yes, my husband recognized Santa and tried to steal his hat! He even said, 'Ho, ho, ho-Merry Christmas.' His recollection was rather brief but it was the highlight of my day." She grinned.

The gas pump clicked off, the woman swiped her credit card to make payment, and turned to thank the man who had been willing to help her. The two were saying their farewells when the squeal of brakes, a thud, and breaking glass at the intersection caught their attention.

"Oh, my!" The lady whimpered with a distressed expression. "It's getting so slick. I've got to hurry and get home."

"Ma'am, I'd be honored to follow you in case you have problems."

She hesitated momentarily and then appeared relieved, "Oh, I'd be so grateful. I can't thank you enough. And by the way, my name is Margaret." She reached out to shake hands with her new friend.

"Margaret, I'm pleased to make your acquaintance. My name is Ray." He patted her hand gently before they released their grasp. "You just drive slowly; I'll be right behind you."

When Margaret pulled into her garage Ray stopped curbside. "I just want to be sure you get inside safely," he shouted.

Margaret waved and asked him to wait for a moment-then nodded and spoke to her neighbor hanging Christmas lights. She guided John into the house, quickly reappeared in the garage, and motioned for Ray to pull into the driveway.

She thanked Ray again and soon mentioned this being the first Christmas she and her husband had ever spent alone. Ray, always a soft touch for older folks, was happy to listen. She spoke fondly of traditions her family adhered to when she was a child in England and revealed an interesting glimpse into her past plus a taste of her cherished memories from across the pond.

"You know mistletoe is very traditional in England. My first "real" kiss was under the mistletoe when I was a teenager. Oh, what memories I have." For a split second, Margaret looked like a young girl again.

Several minutes passed before Margaret began to shiver and they were forced to say farewell.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Christmas morn found Margaret peeking out her front door just as the sun crested the horizon. She stepped outside, instantly clasped her hands like a small child, and peered up and down the street. With not a soul in sight she began to examine the items discovered on her porch each one dredged up memories of years gone by in Merry Old England.

Just above her head hung an arrangement of mistletoe adorned with elegant lace; she touched it gently. Bedecked with Victorian ornaments, a small, lighted Christmas tree sat in the corner-beneath it a homemade mincemeat pie wrapped securely and tied with golden ribbon. The card attached said only, "From: Santa." Hanging from the doorknob a brilliant red Santa Claus hat with tag, "To: John."

Margaret called to John; he slowly made his way and stepped outside. Nothing on the porch sparked his interest until Margaret placed the Santa hat in his hands. After staring at it and stroking the velvety softness, he plopped it onto his head. It sat askew but John's face beamed as his voice rang out across the neighborhood, "Ho, ho, ho! Ho, ho, ho!"

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Parked several houses away, a Secret Texas Santa sniffed and wiped at a lone tear a happy tear. "Merry Christmas and God Bless." He smiled and turned towards home.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Kathleene and husband, Jerry, reside in Plano, Texas. They share their home with two terribly spoiled schnauzers. A freelancer, she has contributed to newspapers, anthologies, magazines, online ezines, and writes a weekly column entitled "Heart of Texas." She is Editor for Starfish, a daily inspiration ezine. Visit Kathy's website at: www.txyellowrose.comor feel free to email her at: Lnstrlady@aol.com

Welcome to Today's Game - What's Your Target?

2010-09-30T05:19:00.001-07:00

Most people don't aim too high and miss. They aim too low and hit.

~Bob Moawad

Ponder that thought for a moment. What's your target? Is it high or low?

Here is today's suggested action:
1) pick a target for something you want to accomplish
2) raise it a little - if it is 5 make is 6 or 7. Something that makes you squirm a little.
3) take action towards your target.

Now Repeat - Repeat - Repeat

How simple is that.

Find some thoughts on the "Ready - Fire - Aim" approach here. It works great when you seem stuck or not sure what to do - do something.

Game of the Day @ http://8pecks.com

Would love to hear from you.
--
Steve Peck

http://8pecks.com
skype: steve.peck09

Today's game - what is it you think you are not?

2010-09-14T02:22:00.001-07:00

Take a few minutes and think about this.....

"It's not what you are that holds you back, its what you think you're not."
Dennis Waitley

Today's game - what is it you think you are not? Ponder that, dwell in that today.

Would love to hear from you.

Steve
Game Of The Day

What choices should we be offering?

2010-09-06T14:15:00.001-07:00

Another TED video - dealing with choice. What research has show about offering options or choices. How do people choose!

Watch the Video

A Happy Planet

2010-09-05T11:28:00.001-07:00

Very Interesting Talk... a different way of looking at the world and what our ultimate goals are or could be.

A video worth watching from TED

What Gears Are You Using Today?

2010-09-01T04:20:00.001-07:00

Life is like a ten-speed bike. Most of us have gears we never use.

~Charles Schultz

If we have all these gears, which ones are we using? I'm going to take a look to day and see if there is one that hasn't been used in awhile and try it out. How about you?

Today's game - Find the elephant in you!

2010-08-27T04:14:00.001-07:00

Great little article, however I do take exception to one statement. Who can guess what it is? Comment Here!

DON'T ACT LIKE AN ELEPHANT!

By Fran Briggs

In India, elephants are used for manual labor. When an elephant is small and weighs approximately 200 pounds, it is securely tied with a heavy-duty rope. In between 'jobs' the elephant tries to break through its limitation. The calf whines, tugs, and even tries to chew through the rope-but it is unable to break free.

Finally, the elephant gives up its will and accepts his circumstances. The elephant believes there is absolutely no chance to free himself and overcome his limitation. In doing so, he misses out on his defining moment.

A defining moment is the exact moment one adopts or accepts a new belief that drastically transforms their life. They accept this new belief as a new truth, regardless if it is true or not. Because the brain accepts repetition of thought and deduction as 'the truth,' the rope reigns sovereign not only in the calf's immediate environment, but in his mind as well.

With this belief deeply embedded in the elephant's mind, his handler came up with an ingenious idea to permanently disempower him. He realized all that was needed was to tie the four-ton animal up with extremely small ropes and he would remain tied. You see in the elephant's mind, any size rope would keep him securely confined.

Don't act like an elephant. Size up and break through the confining ropes in your mind. When you're faced with change, change your perspective. When you're overwhelmed with something new; change your view. Use affirmations, to eradicate limitations and nothing will be impossible for you!

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Fran Briggs is the founder of the F. Briggs Group, Personal Growth Facilitators. She is the author of several books and over 300 articles including, "Set Yourself Up for Success!" Ms. Briggs is a "motivational speaker of the inspirational kind." She speaks to audiences of children and adults of all ages and backgrounds, with the aim of inspiring them to their respective levels of greatness. Fran can be contacted atFranBriggs@aol.com and www.getsponsors.8k.com

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Steve Peck

http://8pecks.com

Teenage Parenting
skype: steve.peck09

Today's game - Find the elephant in you!

2010-08-27T04:05:00.001-07:00

Great little article, however I do take exception to one statement. Who can guess what it is? Comment Here!

DON'T ACT LIKE AN ELEPHANT!

By Fran Briggs

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

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Steve Peck

http://8pecks.com

Teenage Parenting
skype: steve.peck09

Do You Build List? If yes, then you'll want to read this. If not...pass right by.

2010-08-24T15:09:00.001-07:00

---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Steve Peck <steve@8pecks.com>
Date: Tue, Aug 24, 2010 at 5:50 PM
Subject: Do You Build List? If yes, then you'll want to read this. If not...pass right by.
To: 8pecks@8pecks.posterous.com

Can A Listbuilding System Be TOTALLY Automated?

I know we're all a bit sick and tired of promises of "automated software" that will make us rich before dinner.

And I'm always the first to be skeptical of these kinds of outrageous claims.

But today I may have to actually eat my words.

Because I just picked up a listbuildilng system that really is incredibly fast...,

And the traffic actually does keeps flow in on auto-pilot.

It's a pretty new tactic on the scene that I've heard of.

But I never really knew how to implement it.

Then I found this:

<a href="http://neverfaillistbuilding.com/freestuff/video-2/">Free Plug N Play Listbuilding System</a>

At that link 7 figure marketer Bill McRea is GIVING AWAY this listbuilding system totally free...

It's his way of getting some buzz going for his upcoming product launch (apparently he's go another system up his sleeve that's even better than this)

In any case..

I went and got this myself and it's totally legit.

There's nothing scammy about it all.

It's just a way to instantly create a win-win offer that potential JV partners can't refuse.

Bill hand you EVERYTHING you need to make it work. And I mean EVERYTHING.

So if you know the power of having a mailing list..

Do yourself a favor and go get this.

Do it now: <a href="http://neverfaillistbuilding.com/freestuff/video-2/">Free Plug N Play Listbuilding System</a>

I mean...you can't beat the price, right?

P.S. There is one catch to this...you'll have to help spread the word. But that's easy for me because I've seen this strategy in action and know that it works.

You should get <a href="http://neverfaillistbuilding.com/freestuff/video-2/">Free Plug N Play Listbuilding System</a> now!

--
Steve Peck

http://8pecks.com
skype: steve.peck09

Take A Look Tuesday

2010-08-24T02:56:00.001-07:00

What can you learn from the present?

Spend a minute with this and let me know what you see.

If you want to know your past; look into your present conditions.

If you want to know your future; look into your present actions.

~Chinese Proverb

What is your present telling you? Do you want to create something new?

Game of The Day - Paving the Way For Others Greatness

Steve Peck

http://8pecks.com
skype: steve.peck09

Today is What's In-store Monday @ Starting Gate Park

2010-08-23T04:34:00.001-07:00

Welcome to today's game - What's In-store Monday

Look closely at the present you are constructing: it should look like the future you are dreaming.

~Alice Walker

Guess it's time to check today's agenda, today's action plan. Does it contribute to your future? Does it lead you toward your goals? You get to decide what is in store for you.

I hope the answer is yes...but if not today is the day to trim your sails (for all you sailors out there), to adjust your course. It doesn't have to be a big, huge adjustment.

Here is a little starter video for today:

Jim Rohn (INCREDIBLE!) - The Thoughts Of Jim Rohn... - Watch a funny movie here

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Feeling Lonely....this is amazing

2010-08-22T17:06:00.001-07:00

Today's Game Can't believe what i find at TED.com. You'll want to watch this, if nothing more than to see the state of technology. Truly amazing

What's your game today?

2010-08-22T04:06:00.001-07:00

While this was put together for teens, it made me ask some questions too...

What is your game?